The Agony of Losing a baby



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Losing a child could be very painful, more painful is losing the child when all eyes are expecting to see the joy of 9 months or more vanish away within minutes before delivery.
While many could accuse spiritual powers of the enemy, many have also been said of how preventive caution could be taken to find a lasting solution to this joy taker moments.
While you can not throw out facts and study that have to do with the way the baby is placed in the womb, Placental problem, Baby development in the womb, Bacterial infections, High blood pressure, if the woman is of old age, Malnutrition, smoking, drinking, not exercising enough and so on. 
One major finding we have done is that a lot has to do with the hospital you are registered in and the doctors that do your regular check during antenatal, the scan results, the equipments available at the registered hospital e.g life support machine, more importantly- the experience, availability and attitude of the doctors and nurses at hand during delivery.
When you ask for most cases of this Stillbirth, it is as a result of most time the people who take delivery. Even when the early stage report is badly taken by some in experienced doctors and nurses which already is bad enough- some times when an experienced doctor and nurse are available at delivery- they could save the day. (You could actually backed this up with a bad car and an experience driver in the issue of break failure).
                Stillbirth can Be Prevented!
·         Register at a good hospital that has experienced doctors with good track records. Also make sure they have good delivery equipments including life support machine.
·         Have personal consultant to help out also when still pregnant.
·         Do regular scan whether ask to or not.
·         When you notice bleeding, don't think it is normal, go to your hospital.
·         Whenever you notice the activeness of your baby has reduced in the womb, rush to the hospital.


·         Safe money, so that if you are asked to do cesarean section you don't give excuses.
·         Ask questions.
·         Make sure you have your husband around and possibly personal doctor during delivery.
If possible, get the number and attention of the Chief medical director (cmd) during delivery so as to have best hands available and avoid the usual agony statement from hospital: we are sorry madam,we lost the baby.
If you have experienced this agony incident before, be strong- you shall recover- Amen.

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